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Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Semester ended... Lesson Learnt!

Final's done... Semester's over...
overall i am glad and satisfied with everything...
With the type of course i've chose..
with the things im learning and learnt so far...
with the college i've chosen...

am glad that the course i've chosen was one of God's Will 4 me...
and for that i have the inner peace coz im also on the Right track!!

learning psychology is fun!!
many things can be applied in my own life...
having the knowledge of why people do what they do is amazing... (it's like able to understand them without asking them y...)

But one of the things i've learnt and am longing to share is this....

Type of Attachment Style with their caregiver during infant & how it has the impact on an individual's relationship life in the future...

All in all there are 3 Attachment Style:
  • Avoidant Attachment Style- With Distant & Aloof Caregiver
  • Anxious or Ambivalent Style- With Inconsistent &Overbearing Caregiver
  • Secure Attachment Style- Responsive & Caring Caregiver
so any individual will fall in any of the three category depending on the type of relationship they had with their caregiver... but the best Attachment Style will be the secure attachment style coz that individual will grow up to be a confident individual who will venture into a relationship thinking that he/she is worthy and precious and should only deserve the BEST!!!

However, i can't stop thinking that EVERYONE CAN FALL INTO THE 3RD CATEGORY!! Cause every1 do have a Responsive & Caring Caregiver which is no one else but JESUS himself.... it's all depending on how you look at it.... Whether agree or not, YES! JESUS DO CARE! & HE IS THE GREATEST CAREGIVER IN THE WORLD...!!

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Key 2 Success & Failure...

Often times, you would have heard various people suggesting different ways to Success!!
But now i am here to tell u honestly that 'I Do  not know what the key to Success is but the key to FAILURE is always trying to please EVERYONE!!!' 

Do bear in mind that our purpose in life is only to Please God....
Trying to make everyone else happy only drains out the energy from u...
Speaking from experience, now i have gone to an extend that nothing else matters except making sure that Our Father in Heaven is  Pleased with what i do... 


In case ur not aware, even Jesus couldn't Please everyone, as He was doing the work of God!!
There were always a few group of people who were against Him... So my question to u is... If Jesus Himself couldn't do it, what makes you think that u can...??

So, rejoice always in all circumstances...Despite what others think of you.. Their opinion doesn't matter.. Cause, Our Purpose in life is not to Please Men but to Please God... 

But also bear in mind, that these doesn't gives u the liberty to do whatever ... Coz there is a God Above u who is watching you at all times... & His Grace Period doesn't last forever... 

Walk Righteously in God's Sight... & You will be Blessed... 


Thursday, September 30, 2010

Who Do U Want to be...

Moses was the most humblest Man on earth, He was the only in this whole earth who had actually saw the face of God and still lived...

David, Was the man after God's own heart... he was God's favorite musician for as he sing, it was like a sweet incense to God's ears....

Abraham, was called the Father of Faith by God... Simply Because He left his home & trusted God to lead him where ever despite the fact that he didn't know where he was going....

Noah, Demonstrated Obedience... Regardless of the whole world being against him, He just trusted & obeyed God's instruction to build a big humongous ARK!!!

So my question to you now is... WHO R U BEFORE GOD??
Who do you think God view you in His Sight...??
Do you think God is smiling at you now or is He sad...?  

Whatever it is, juz know that he is a God who loves You & would never want to let go of your Hand!!!
Regardless of who we are... He still loves us all the same... 



Thursday, August 19, 2010

Inner Beauty...

Keeping this person's identity Confidential, (lol...)
He said this, 'Guys Don't really care of the inner Beauty of a girl, so take care & maintain to be pretty always'

hmmmmmm.... Pondering over those few words, IT STRUCK ME!! 'THAT SHOULDN'T BE THE WAY!!!'
Hello.............. if every1 is going to fall for any1 as long as they r PRETTY & BEAUTIFUL, 
then life might not turn out to be as Pretty & Beautiful like it should
Coz THAT AINT LOVE!!! There's more to L.O.V.E than Physical Beauty...

As said in 1 Peter 3:3-4~  
3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes.
4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.

So Guys & Gals... When ur going to choose ur future FiancĂ©e, Don't juz look for Pretty Face But look 4 Pretty Attitude & Personality...

For its not going to be the Pretty Face of ur partner that's going to decide whether u'll be Happy in the future
But the INNER BEAUTY of ur partner.... 



Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Prayer: The Ultimate Timesaver.

“That's why I urge you to pray for absolutely everything, ranging from small to large.  Include everything as you embrace this God-life, and you'll get God's everything.”  Mark 11:24 MSG

   When we are faced with a task or challenge of any kind, the Lord wants us to ask Him for help right away.  If we don't, we could spend fruitless hours trying to accomplish something that could be done in only minutes with God's help.  Moses, the great man of God, prayed, “Teach us to make the most of our time, so that we may grow in wisdom.” (Psalm 90:12 NLT)  In the sight of God, time is precious, and He knows that one of the best timesavers is prayer.  When we call on the Lord in prayer when we have a need, we are “making the most of our time.”  As believers, we are not called to be busy.  We are called to be fruitful and productive.  And God has arranged it so that in order for us to be truly productive, we must depend on His involvement.

   Jesus told His disciples:  “Remain in Me, and I will remain in you.  No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine.  Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me.  I am the vine; you are the branches.  If a man remains in Me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing.” (John 15:4-5 NIV)  Our union and communion with Christ enable us to do things with His help that we could never accomplish on our own.  The world's system teaches us to stand on our own, to be our own man (or woman), and to be independent.  But that's not God's way.  We are told to “abide” or “remain” in Him at all times.  That means that we depend on Him for everything, and we consult Him in everything.  We don't make a move without Him.  Christ is our example.  He said:  “I am able to do nothing from Myself [independently, of My own accord--but only as I am taught by God and as I get His orders]...” (John 5:30 AMP)  If anyone had a right to have an independent spirit, it was Christ.  But He didn't.  He relied on the Father continually, and we should, too.  Otherwise, as the Lord says, we will “do nothing.”  Nothing of any real or eternal value, that is.

   Prayer is not only a big factor in making the most of our time, but also in being productive.  Jesus said:  “If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you.  This is to My Father's glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be My disciples.” (John 15:7-8 NIV)  A disciple of Christ who is walking in the perfect will of God prays “without ceasing”. (1 Thessalonians 5:17 NKJV)  He commits all of his endeavors to the Lord, and He trusts Him for His help. (Psalm 37:5 NLT)  He meditates on the Word of God “day and night,” until it becomes planted deep inside of him. (Psalm 1:2-3)  And he bears "fruit that will last" for all eternity--fruit that glorifies God. (John 15:16) 

   If prayer is the ultimate timesaver, then prayerlessness is the ultimate time waster.  From now on, don't squander your time.  Make the most of it by calling on God and opening the door to all of the magnificent resources of Heaven!

   Lord, forgive me for all of the times that I neglected to call on You for help when I had a need.  Remind me that when I reach out to You in large matters or small, I'm not "bothering" You, but I'm obeying You.  Thank You that as I invite your involvement into everything I do, I will produce abundant fruit for Your glory!

I think that everyone of us should take some time off to evaluate our relationship with God. We should not only think of Him when we are going through tough times. Ain't that unfair? Think about it.

May God bless all souls who believe in Him.
Amen.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Everything happens for a reason...

Have u gone through or going through a period of time, where u gave up in watever u do...
Things don't happen the way u expected it to...
it has gone beyond ur control & somehow u juz can't find the explanation Y...??


& then u began to wonder, Have i done the right thing...?
Have i gone out of the Will of God..?
Did i not hear from God...?
is God still watching over me or has He Given up on me...


Well, im here to encourage u once more THAT GOD IS STILL HERE!!
RIGHT BESIDE U EVEN AS U READ THIS!!
He will never give up on u even if u have given up on urself...


juz remember, that sometimes in life, God allows certain things to happen so that we may overcome & grow from it!!!
so that it can be used for the glorification of God's name...


God is our Daddy!!! Which father do u know of that the he will do bad for the child he love!!
NONE!! Wat more our Heavenly Father... He knows watz BEST for each of His Child!!
Even sometimes, if u think this is best or that is best 4 me!!! God still knows BETTER!!
So... let us not try to teach God... But juz follow Christ Blindly...!!
For u should know that even if u walk in the deepest jungle or in the darkest valley, God is right there beside u...


No matter how bad the circumstances may seem... JUZ REMEMBER...
That u r not holding on to HIM, But HE is holding on to u!!!
& u have the assurance that when He is holding on to u, HE WILL NEVER LET U GO LOST!!!


Have a Blessed Day... ;D

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Inspiration comes From God...

I've juz realized this....
Inspiration DO Come from God...


last time, when i read my bible everyday..
i'll always have something to post about...
Now as i seldom read the bible, i've got no words nor inspiration to write about anything...


so its TRUE!! the more u read your BIBLE, all the more u'll gain WISDOM!! 
Not only in this, but also in other field of ur Life...
You'll know how to SPEAK wisely, STUDY smartly, & BEHAVE carefully...


I've noticed, as i lack in reading my bible everyday, I've been talking alot without thinking...
many times i've regret over the things i've said.. & how i behaved!!!
so its clear... READ UR BIBLE EVERYDAY & U'll have enough WISDOM to live a life pleasing to God... =)

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Be ExtraOrdinary!!!

Just by living in this world, Doesn't make us Part of this world...
This is not our Home,, We are Just passing through...
Heaven is OUR HOME...


and Thus,We can't be doing or following what other Young people do...
We can't be saying what normal people would say...
We shouldn't even be thinking what normal people would think...
Coz we are Called to be EXTRAORDINARY!!!


By Simply reading the 1st two paragraph, 
U may think to yourself.. 'This is impossible!' 'This is HARD!'
But this is simply a lie that many young people now choose to believe.


God wouldn't have asked us to be extraordinary if he knew that it was impossible
IT IS POSSIBLE!!! All things are possible through Christ Jesus who strengthen us...
But the question now is that whether 'R We Really Relying On God 2 Provide Us With the Strength We Need '


R We Really  Dwelling in the Presence of God At all times so that we can Rest Peacefully in the Shadow of the Almighty


Strength of God only comes to us when we fully rely on God.!
It only comes to us if we tell & ask God that we need it!


Yes i know... Going against the tide is not easy...
Its not easy to say No when the Whole world is saying Yes!
Its not easy to NOT DO what the whole world is doing!
Its not easy to NOT THINK the way the people of this world think!


But do bear in mind, that we are not in these alone...
There is a God bigger than the Universe who is on our side guiding us & carrying us through it all...


So when u are among a group of friends..
Be proud that ur the different one..
Be proud that ur the only one shining the light among the darkest moment.
Be proud coz ur not of the Ordinary But U R EXTRAORDINARY!!!


Tuesday, January 26, 2010

God Will Never Put More on Us Than We Can Handle



One of the lies of the enemy which almost most Christian has believed is THIS.
'God Will Never Put More on Us Than We Can Handle'


but in fact, its actually the exact opposite...
in real life, God WILL put more things on us than we can actually handle!


its when we have lost our Hope is when God will choose to work!
to remind us, THAT HE IS OUR HOPE!
Its when we have no more strength is when God chooses to work even MIGHTIER!
to remind us OUR STRENGTH COMES FROM GOD!


the lifes we live, its not about HOW MUCH WE CAN DO FOR GOD,
but rather its HOW MUCH GOD CAN DO THROUGH US....


God will indeed put more things in our life, than we can handle
so that when all things fall apart or when u think u can't do it anymore,
U WILL WHOLLY DEPEND ON GOD! 
TO TRUST GOD! that all things will end well...


And also, WHEN ALL THINGS DO END WELL..
We won't boast on ourselves or on any other things
BUT will BOAST ON JESUS CHRIST!!!


Every thing that we go through in this world,
either GOOD or BAD...
ITS FOR THE GLORIFICATION OF THE NAME OF OUR LORD.... :)

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Action Speakes Louder Than Words...


Going around & telling people that Jesus is the answer!! Jesus is the Way
is not the only way we can Share the Gospel...
Ever heard of the phrase "Action Speaks Louder Than Words"??


we may be telling every1 that Jesus is Real & Jesus is GOD
but it may not have any effect on them if our BEHAVIOR & ACTION doesn't walk align with our Faith..
FOR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS!!


Living in this World, the way we Talk, The way we behave, WILL HAVE AN EFFECT ON SOME PEOPLE,
whether aware or not, u may CONSTANTLY B OBSERVED by others simply because u r carrying the name THE CHILD OF GOD WIT U!!!


Juz remember,  Talking is not the only way u can plant a seed in an unbeliever's heart!!
juz living ur life accordingly to How God wants u to behave will also Plant a Seed in an Unbeliever's heart!!


so live ur life everyday, Having a fear Of God 
and remembering that through ur LIFESTYLE TODAY, U CAN TOUCH A LIFE!!

Friday, January 1, 2010

NeW YEAr!!!


another year has gone by & another year had COME!!
Many challenges & struggles awaits us in 2010!!
another 365 days to live in which it gives us an opportunity to glorify God!!!


even as a new year begins...
let us embrace this new year with a NEW HOPE that God will do GREAT THINGS in 2010!! 
Changes are happening around us, & let us move on with Faith that God will bring Great Growth in2 our CHURCH & in2 our LIFES!!!


Whatever dreams & desire u have, May it come to past with God's Guidance!!!
juz remember...


Seeing is not believing but Believing is Seeing!!!


Have a Blessed New Year!! =)